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Tradition
Let’s face it, the calendar can easily fill up with holiday events and before you know it you are running from one to the next trying to keep up. Instead of saying yes to all of it, sit down with your family and take an honest look at the calendar. Prioritize the events or gatherings that are most important, create margin, and leave room for unexpected fun to pop up. Our scruffy city has SO many seasonal events going on, if you are looking to add a new tradition to your holiday season - check this out. Honor the season you are in by remembering traditions from your childhood and implementing new ones that fit your current season. Some people you may want to include in new traditions: elderly neighbors, classmates, co-workers, members of a social group you are a part of.
2022 Ornament Exchange.
Idea from Jess- Invite friends over for a white elephant ornament exchange! Our friends look forward to this every year, it never disappoints. Early December, pick a night and grab a couple bottles of wine & some simple dessert. The host will provide matching gift bags & tissue paper for as many guests are coming. As each person arrives, they place their unwrapped ornament in a bag and put it under the tree. Draw numbers for the order of choosing & opening a gift. Allow each ornament to be stolen up to 3x before it is frozen, but the person who drew # 1 gets a chance to steal any opened (unfrozen) ornament at the end. It’s so fun and everyone leaves with a new ornament!
Decoration
There is no need to buy an entire array of new holiday decor every year. It’s fun to incorporate a new accent or special item every season, but your collection and taste will grow and be refined as the years go by. You may want to use more kid friendly decor while you have littles in the home, and if your household is more mature you can venture into the land of breakables and beautiful collectibles. Bringing the outside in can create a natural winter-y feel to your tablescape or mantle. If you enjoy crafting, make a simple yet festive holiday paper chain to add some whimsy to your living space.
Idea from Katie- I follow a handful of artists who create and sell hand painted ornaments each year. I anticipate the release of these collections each year, watching my email and social media for alerts becuase they often sell out quickly. This is a way to support small businesses and independent artists while slowly adding unique and meaningful pieces to my ornament collection over the years. A few I love are hand painted ceramic ornaments from artists: Cocoshalom and Lucy Reiser. Bradley’s usually carries hand painted ornaments made by Milk Moon House each year, Gather and Finch sell ornaments created by Jenny Parkhurst Designs.
Mindset
While the holidays are a time of joy & festivities, they can also bring a sadness of loved ones who are no longer present, seasons of life that are behind us, and the yearnings of our heart not yet realized. Laugh with your family and friends about memories from Christmases past and take a stroll down memory lane by looking through old photos. Be gentle to yourself and those around you - the holidays can bring a dynamic mix of emotions and memories. Take a walk, step outside, light a candle, do what you need to do to slow down in the midst of the hustle & bustle.
Idea from Taryn- Before anyone else in her house is awake, Taryn finds a spot to enjoy an Advent reading. Beginning the day in this way helps keep her heart and mind centered on what matters most. It is an act of rebellion against jumping into task mode first thing in the morning. The rest of the day may be chaotic or busy, but these quiet moments in the dark of the morning are full of stillness and calm. Advent resources to note: Preparing for Jesus by Walter Wangerin Jr., Advent Blocks for kids from Good Kind, The Advent Book- Heirloom Edition by Jack & Kathy Stockman, and Winter Fire: Christmas with G.K. Chesterson.
Another way to keep a healthy and grounded mindset is to focus on the needs of others. Here’s a few ways you could do that:
Participate in Salvation Army’s Angel Tree Program
Give to the Empty Stocking Fund
Provide gifts to the Helen Ross McNabb Dear Santa Program
Choose from opportunities to serve seniors with the CAC Office on Aging
Valid for any of our services, including:
home/workplace organizing
moving services
packing, unpacking, day of move coordination
senior moves
holiday & event prep
Seeds of Change founder, Ian Dovan, and I met several years ago through mutual friends and have had the great pleasure of encouraging each other as business owners and stewards of these companies we’ve been given ever since.
If you are looking for a digital way to organize your brain and keep plans, recipes, lists, etc. in one place - Google Sheets may be a great tool for you! We’re sharing a few ways you can streamline your holiday plans and preparations by utilizing their online collaborative spreadsheets.
Your bathroom is one of the most-used spaces in your home—so why not make it a space you actually love? A few thoughtful tweaks can transform it from cluttered and chaotic into calming and functional.
Toss any expired products (yes, even that half-used bottle you meant to try)
Clear out duplicates or items you don’t love
Pull everything out, inspect, and wipe down the surfaces behind
Why this matters: Starting from zero gives you visibility and clarity when redesigning storage.
Divide your bathroom into functional zones (e.g. grooming, skincare, cleaning, linens). For each zone, assign a home for its items:
Daily use (toothbrush, cleanser), use a small tray or clear organizer by the sink
Skincare/Cosmetics, use drawer dividers, acrylic boxes, or canister
Linens/Towels, fold or roll to display on open shelves, use a ladder, or store in the closet
Cleaning & bulk items, under the sink cabinet, stackable bins
Tip: Use clear jars or canisters for cotton pads, Q-tips, etc.—they help you see when it’s time to refill.
Choose 2–3 items to display (a soap dish, a tray, a plant, or a candle)
Keep it simple & intentional — avoid “decor clutter”
Hide the rest inside drawers, cabinets, or behind mirrored doors
Bonus: A small plant (like a snake plant or pothos) or a framed print can soften the hardness of tile/ceramic and bring life into the space.
Some local shops we love: Oglewood Avenue, Pope’s, & Stanley’s Greenhouse
You don’t need to gut your bathroom to improve functionality. Try:
Slim rolling carts or narrow trolleys
Over-the-door organizers or suction caddies
Tension rods under sinks for spray bottles
Drawer dividers or adjustable inserts
Wall-mounted baskets or peg system
Clean mirrors and grout regularly to keep the space feeling crisp
Weekly: Wipe down counters, discard trash, return items to their “home”
Monthly: Declutter under sink, check expiration dates, re-fold linens
Seasonal: Reassess what’s working, re-balance your zones, update decor
A bathroom refresh doesn’t need a full remodel. Purging, zoning, thoughtful display, and clever storage upgrades go a long way in making your space feel both beautiful and functional.
Who knows what organizing one small space in your home or workspace could lead to?
As always, if these tasks sound just like what you need but time is limited, Help You Dwell would be honored to help you along your journey to order in your space.
We are so excited to share with you today: Narrative Photo Organizing. Trish pours her heart and expertise into helping folks preserve and enjoy a lifetime of memories.
I don't know about you but one thing I can really appreciate is a well thought out guest room. It's amazing how the little things can make such a huge difference in whether a stay is memorable in a good way or a bad one. We have come up with a list of our top tips in creating the ideal space for guests and we would love to share them with you.
After you’ve done the work of deciding what items to let go of, it’s important to make a wise decision about where to donate your items. We are always eager to fulfill our clients specific wishes on where certain items are donated, when they have an organization or place in mind. Today we’re sharing a few local donation spots you might not know about!
The “right” way to set up a kitchen is to make it functional for YOU and how you use it. When tackling the spices the two key factors are access & visibility so that you can get what you need when you need it. One of the best things we can recommend is investing in uniform containers. This isn’t always required, but will be a huge help if you want to take your spice storage to the next level.
